I’m 41 and Fertile AF (Now): My Real Talk Journey to Reclaiming My Womb, My Fire, and My Fertility

I’m 41.

I still want a baby.

And for a minute, I thought I was messed up.

Not because my spirit wasn’t ready.

Not because my womb didn’t want it.

But because my energy was off.

My hormones were quiet.

And sis... my libido had LEFT the building. (Oh shit)

Gone.

MIA.

Didn’t leave a note.

Just ghosted me. (I was like...OMG!!!)

🧬 THE WAKE-UP CALL: “IS THIS NORMAL OR AM I JUST OVER MEN?”

I was talking to this man...you know, ethical poly vibes, spiritualish, had a girlfriend, barely texted back and I felt nothing.

No spark. No tingle. No uterus flutter. I thought maybe it was him.

Then I thought... maybe it’s me.

And that’s when I started digging. I got labs. I got curious. I got on my own damn nerves Googling every damn hormone known to woman.

And what did I find?

My testosterone was LOW. Like — “you want me to have desire for who??” low.

THE TESTOSTERONE GLOW-UP

Enter: Biote Pellets. (Bioidentical hormone replacement therapy)

Enter: lifting weights.

Enter: tracking my cycle like it’s the stock market.

Within weeks I was back. Like, she's alive again back.

My energy was rising. My sex drive was humming. My womb was speaking again.

I started ovulating stronger. I started dreaming of babies. I wasn’t “infertile.” I was underpowered because my hormones dropped. (Thank you perimenopause)

And no one told me testosterone was the 🔑.

🧿 IF YOU’RE OVER 35 AND STILL WANT TO CONCEIVE — READ THIS

• ✅ Test your FSH, LH, AMH, Testosterone, Free T, SHBG, and Thyroid (TSH, T3, T4)

• ✅ Don’t let anyone tell you “you’re too old” — your womb hears that energy

• ✅ Support your mitochondria with NAD+, CoQ10, and lifting heavy

• ✅ Bring pleasure back online — it’s not extra, it’s spiritual strategy

• ✅ Know that you are the timeline — your fertility doesn't follow rules, it follows resonance

👇🏽 Book your personalized Fertility Reading to see what’s really going on in your womb space and what your ancestors are saying about your next steps:🕯️ taminspires.com/fertility-reading

Then join me inside the next Fertility Ritual, a sacred multi-day activation to align your womb, your energy, and your spirit babies with the timeline you’re ready to live:👶🏽 taminspires.com/fertility-ritual