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Your Ex Is Blocking Your Blessings: Why Unresolved Ties Are Interfering with Your Ancestral Messages

  • Writer: Tam
    Tam
  • May 13
  • 3 min read


Your unresolved relationships are interfering with your healing.


Yes, I said it.


I’ve been holding sacred space for you, guiding you into the realms where your ancestors are ready and eager to pour into you.


But what I’ve witnessed is this: some of you are coming into ceremony carrying ghosts. And not the ancestral kind.


I’m talking about your ex.

That friend that betrayed you.

That parent who never loved you right.


That relationship you said you were done with, but energetically?

Spiritually?

Womb-deep?


You’re still tied to it. And I can see it. I can feel it.


I’ve watched it interrupt the flow of spirit trying to reach you.


Do you know what it feels like to be mid-ceremony, calling on the ancestors, and suddenly your ex pops up in your vision? 


Not because spirit is trying to bring them back into your life, but because they never truly left. Because you never truly released them.


You’ve got open energetic doors. And anybody—anybody—can walk through them if you haven’t decided to lock that shit up and throw away the key.


That’s not just a personal problem. That’s a spiritual block.


This isn’t just theory, Juju Mama. This is the very reason I created the WombShift Mastermind—to guide you through the release, the reclamation, and the reconnection to your womb’s true frequency. Your GIFTS! You’re not alone in this.


Here’s what spiritual interference can look like:


  • You enter a sacred space and feel blocked from receiving messages.

  • You hear your ex’s name in your head during a womb healing.

  • You dream about a toxic partner after calling on your ancestors.

  • You feel confusion or self-doubt right after spending time with your current partner.


The ancestors are trying to send messages, healing, clarity and it’s bouncing off the walls of pain you haven’t dealt with yet. You're asking for divine guidance but haven't cleared the static.


When the ancestors show me that your energy is being blocked by someone you once loved, I often suggest a 24-Hour Womb Reading. Our ancestors are truth tellers and sometimes the reading confirms what your heart has been afraid to admit.


Let me be clear: Yes, I can help.

Yes, we can do the rituals.

Yes, we can call on spirit.


But if you don’t choose to release, If you don’t use your boundaries, your tears, your womb, your heart as portals of freedom.


Then nothing I do will stick.

Nothing the ancestors say will land.


You gotta help your own damn self first.


Release isn’t always pretty. It’s messy. It’s loud. It breaks you open.


But that’s where the magic lives. That’s where your liberation begins.


If your decisions are still rooted in fear, attachment, or fantasy and if you're still texting him, still checking her page, still dreaming about that closure, they will show up.


Not as lovers.


But as energetic interruptions in your most sacred spaces.


And that’s a problem.


So this is your invitation, your call to action, your spiritual PSA:


Cut the damn cord.

Cry it out.

Write the letter and burn it.

Speak the truth.

Set the boundary.

Block them!

Choose YOU.


Because your ancestors are trying to guide you. But you’ve got to clear the path.


Want to know how to cut out that interference....say YES in the comments!


For those of you ready to stop the cycle and realign with your divine path, I invite you to tune into my weekly insights and teachings on my YouTube channel. Every message is medicine.






 
 
 

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