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The Baby Was the Offering, Juju Mama!


Grab your tea because this one is scalding hot. The truth? The only thing some men can offer you is their ancestors passing through your womb. Yep, that’s the tea, the sugar, and the lemon.

You’re sitting over there crying about how he ain’t sh*t, doesn’t do this, won’t do that, and won’t even take the trash out. You’re wondering why you’re stuck with a man who gives nothing but problems. Let me break it down for you: that man was never the gift. He was the delivery man.

The offering? The baby....his ancestor’s reincarnation. That’s the whole deal.

When the Ancestors Do the Choosing


It’s like his ancestors were sitting in the spiritual realm, sipping on their celestial tea, saying, "We know he’s trash, but we need to slide back to Earth real quick, and sis here has the womb to make it happen. "

So, they sent him your way, packaged with just enough charm and potential to get the job done.

And now? You’re left wondering why this package came with no instructions, no batteries, and definitely no return policy.

Stop Trying to Make Sh*t Happen


Juju Mama, you’re out here trying to make a man be something he’s not equipped to be.

You’re begging for:

  • Emotional support.
  • Financial stability.
  • Divine partnership.

From a man who barely knows his own purpose outside of you.

But here’s the tea: the purpose wasn’t him.

It was the ancestor. 

That baby you brought into this world?

That was the mission all along.

Not the Fairytale You Were Sold


I know, Juju Mama, it’s not the fairytale you were sold. You thought you’d get love, partnership, and a built-in family.

Instead, you got:
  • An ancestor making their comeback tour through your womb.
  • A man who barely shows up for rehearsal.

But here’s the kicker: it’s not about him anymore. It’s about you.

Recognize Your Power


So, stop sitting there trying to figure out why he ain’t sh*t. He was never the main act.

The ancestor knew what they were doing, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.
And no, this isn’t a pass to let trash men slide into your life unchecked. But it is a wake-up call to recognize your worth and your role.

The next time you find yourself entangled with a man who only brings headaches, ask yourself:Is this his ancestor’s work?

If all he’s offering is his bloodline, it’s time to let him drop that package off and keep it moving.

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