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When the Drums Speak, the Ancestors Answer!
Hey Juju Mama, let’s talk about the drum. Not just the drum as an instrument, but the drum as a force. As a portal. As a living, breathing voice that carries the power of our ancestors, the rhythm of the earth, and the vibration of the unseen. As a Sangoma of the Nguni tribe of South Africa, I don’t just hear the drum...I feel it. I know what happens when it starts to speak. I’ve seen spirits move through bodies like waves. I’ve seen people weep, shout, dance, and drop to the

Tam
Dec 28, 20253 min read


You Don’t Have to Know It All: The Truth About Being a Spiritual Leader
Let’s talk about it. This pressure....this unspoken weight that so many spiritual leaders, healers, and guides carry. The expectation that because you hold space for others, because you see beyond the veil, because you’ve been chosen, you must somehow have it all together. Every answer. Every lesson mastered. Every test passed with flying colors. That’s a lie. A bold-faced, soul-crushing lie. And I need you to release it today. You Are a Keeper of Knowledge, Not the Owner of

Tam
Dec 26, 20252 min read


Healers, Stop Performing: The Real Work Is Felt, Not Always Filmed
The moment your healing work becomes about who’s watching instead of who’s healing— you have LEFT the path . And I am calling you back to it. That’s why you’re reading this now. Some of the most powerful moments of my work have never been recorded . Not because I don’t have a camera. Not because I couldn’t put on a show. But because Spirit moves in spaces unseen. Some things are too sacred for the lens. Too raw for the algorithm. Too divine for the digital world to consum

Tam
Dec 19, 20253 min read


They Got Us Scared of Our Own Power....But the Ancestors Are Calling
"Girl, they got us out here afraid of what’s already in our blood." Think about it. We were taught to fear the very thing that has sustained our people for generations, the wisdom, the rituals, the connection to forces greater than ourselves. We were told that honoring our ancestors was wrong, that seeking divine guidance outside of a building was dangerous, and that anything beyond what we were given was something to be feared. But let’s get into it… Why is it okay to gather

Tam
Dec 18, 20252 min read


POV: You finally realize your juju is the business plan.
Let me talk to that part of you that’s been feeling the shift coming , but you keep brushing it off like it’s just nerves or bad sleep. Nah, that’s your womb speaking . That’s your higher self-calling. That’s your ancestors knocking loud as hell like, “Are you ready yet?!” You might know me as the Fertility Juju Mama...and yes, I still manifest babies and help my mamas bring them through the veil, but let me be real with you: I’ve been sitting on something bigger. This ai

Tam
Dec 12, 20252 min read


More Than a Teacher: Releasing the Guilt, Shame, and Limits Placed on My Gifts
For so long, society has tried to put me in a box -a classroom -sized box . Because I am a teacher by trade, people assume that is all I am, all I will ever be, and that every ounce of my energy should be dedicated to that role. And because I am a single teacher with no kids , some of my coworkers believe my time is up for grabs and that I should be willing to stay after hours, take on extra duties, and pour endlessly into students in ways they themselves refuse to do. But

Tam
Nov 29, 20253 min read


Spiritual and Paid: Why I Refuse to Apologize for My Abundance
There are way too many spiritual practitioners out here scared to get paid . Tiptoeing around money like it’s a dirty little secret. ...

Tam
May 15, 20253 min read


The Altar of Your Own Lessons: When Spirit Sends You Back to the Scene of the Crime
You ever notice how the very thing you ran from, the lesson you swore you had nothing else to learn from, is the one that keeps circling...

Tam
Mar 18, 20253 min read


You Can’t Birth a God While Laying with Someone Who Won’t Wake Up
Let’s talk about it, because I see too many powerful women trying to breathe life into men and women who refuse to rise. You’ve awakened....

Tam
Jan 31, 20252 min read
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